5 Things Kids Can Teach Us About Prayer (Updated)

 

Having a kid brings with it a responsibility to teach, but I am learning a lot as well. Kids remind us what it was like to be young again. Jesus was right when He said that unless we become like a little child we cannot enter the kingdom of heaven. It is also true that when you watch a young child ask for something we can learn something about how we should pray.

1. Kids don’t give up very easy.

If you have ever seen a child asking for something they really want you will see a lesson in persistence. Let me ask God with that much tenacity.

 2. Kids are not afraid to ask.

My daughter does not seem to have a hesitancy at all to ask me for what she wants. Maybe we become too afraid of getting a no that we don’t even ask God for things He may be more than willing to give us.

 3. Kids trust their parents have the ability to answer.

No request is too large for my daughter to ask. She doesn’t wonder if I can answer or not. I have limited power to answer, but in prayer I am going into the throne room of the universe.

4. Kids believe that their parents want to answer.

When my daughter asks she really believes that I want to give her good stuff. Do you believe that God wants to give you good and perfect gifts? As Steven Furtick reminds that the old kid’s prayer is really good theology: “God is great. God is good…”

5. Kids are excited when they receive.

Although I have to teach my daughter to express gratefulness, I don’t have to teach her to get excited when good things happen to her. I have to learn from her about what it is to celebrate. Would I put a smile on God’s face if I celebrated like she does when He gives me good things?

Maybe you could take one of these and try it next time you pray.

Why Pray? 10 Reasons to Make an Investment in Prayer (Updated)

So why pray in the first place? Let me give you just some of the benefits to a consistent life of prayer. This is hardly a complete list but since this is a post not a book I figured I should start here.

        1. Relationship with Jesus.

If this was the only reason to pray that would be plenty. We get to build a friendship with God. But there is more.

  2. Health Reasons

The science that I have seen indicates that there are many health benefits to taking time to pray. Things like blood pressure, strengthened immune system and helps with arthritis.

3. Helps with my relationships.

I find that I am easier to deal with after a time of prayer. This makes it a positive thing for those people close to me when I pray. If I am a nicer person to be around my friendships have a better chance to grow.

4. Prayer impacts my family.

I see the difference in my family when I pray. I am investing in my daughter’s future every time that I pray for her. My marriage can get deeper and deeper as I pray for it.

5. Prayer impacts whatever I am praying about.

If I am praying for my church and leaders it makes a difference. It is like a buffet (and I like buffets). Anything in the world that I would like to impact can be touched in my prayer life.

6. I get direction for my days as I pray.

Sometimes God will speak to me about specific assignments for the day or topics for this blog. Other times He will give me more long term direction. I never know what God will say when I pray.

7. Prayer gives me perspective.

It is easy to get focused on my immediate concerns, worries, and cares. Prayer helps me step back and get the perspective of heaven and eternity. This makes life issues take on the right size.

8. Prayer helps me avoid temptation.

Jesus teaches us to pray, “Lead me not into temptation.” We don’t know all the sin we avoid simply by praying this prayer. I figure it is worth not having to go down that road.

 9. Prayer makes me more effective.

It is amazing what I get done when I prayer over my list of things to do. I somehow am more productive than otherwise. And sometimes things that seem so important just get eliminated from my list altogether.

10. Answers for needs

I have seen too many answers to prayer over the years to not include this. Miracles happen! But will we ask?

As I said reason number one would be enough, but none of the others are too shabby either. Let me recommend taking a moment right now to get some of the benefits.

Pursuing your answer in Prayer- Seeing God’s Blessings

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We may be closer to God’s answer for us than we imagine. We may feel in the midst of a struggle and just want it to stop. But maybe we need to be reminded to not give up to soon. Here is a short video I made to encourage you as you pursue God’s blessings in your life:

 

4 Things to Pray for Your Kids or Grandkids (Updated)

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Sometimes we are looking for what to pray for our kids (or for some of you grandkids). Whether I have a long time to pray for my daughter or can just launch a short prayer to heaven this structure has helped me so much. I picked this up from one of my mentors, Dick Eastman the head of Every Home for Christ. I have used it often over the years whether I am praying for Samantha as she is going to bed or in my own time with God. This idea comes from the verse: “Jesus grew in wisdom and in stature and in favor with God and all the people.” (Luke 2:52 NLT) From this we can easily see the four areas to pray for them.

1.  Pray for their minds.

In this area you pray that they would grow in wisdom. It may lead you to pray for their school or the specific thing that they are learning at the moment. You can also pray for the wisdom that you need to teach them as you get opportunity.

2. Pray for them physically.

Jesus grew in stature. If they are younger, you can pray for their development. Even if they are older you can pray for their protection and for health to be maintained. If they are sick this is a time to pray for their healing. You can pray for the provision they may need.

3. Pray for their relationship with God.

I pray that my daughter would learn God’s voice at an early age. I pray for her friendship with Jesus. I pray that she would be a blessing spiritually. Pray that your children and grandchildren have a deep love for God’s word.

4. Pray for their relationship with others.

This is where I pray for my daughters friends. I am praying for the kids in her class at school and church. I pray for her teachers she has and will have. Pray that they will have good relationship with the people they meet and will grow in this area.

This is just a system; there is nothing magical about it, but it gives me a framework that is helpful to my prayer life. Along with praying for the current situation in each of these area you can also pray each of them into the future.

For thoughts on praying into the future and time travel and prayer watch this video:

 

Would you like to read more on praying for your children? I recommend the book by Mark Batterson-Praying Circles Around Your Children

The day I ran into Billy Graham (almost)

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Faithfulness and perseverance matter in long term fruitfulness. My wife Jennie and I got married when we were 20. Being from MN, we obviously decided to get married in the middle of winter (said with a great deal of tongue in cheek). Being 20 we didn’t have a lot of money for a honeymoon. My parents helped pay for one in Rochester, MN about 90 minutes away, close to Mayo hospital.

We borrowed my sister-in-laws car to get down there and proceeded to not be able to start it due to the cold. Fortunately, Rochester has a series of underground and above ground enclosed walkways to get us around. This allowed us to get to a shopping area and multiple restaurants.

One of the days we took our hotel elevator to the underground walkway. While walking through one hallway we passed 3 or 4 men walking in the opposite direction. After we passed them I stopped Jennie and said, “One of those men was Billy Graham.” We weren’t sure so we turned around and headed back the way we came. Sure enough as we passed by Billy Graham was getting on the elevator to our same hotel.

We saw him briefly later in the week at a restaurant we both ate. Although I never had a conversation with him it was a fun moment early in our marriage and early in ministry. Almost 18 years later I am grateful for a chance encounter with a hero of the faith.

But when I think of Billy Graham I think of a person with faithfulness, perseverance to the calling of his life. I am sure he has made mistakes over the years, but he has made consistent strides to the things that God has called him to do.

The question to ask yourself before you go on with your day is, “Am I being faithful to what God has called me to do or am I about to throw in the towel?” You may never be Billy Graham, but you can be the best version of you that you can be. Be faithful today and only eternity will tell the impact your perseverance made.