4 Things to Pray for Your Kids or Grandkids (Updated)

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Sometimes we are looking for what to pray for our kids (or for some of you grandkids). Whether I have a long time to pray for my daughter or can just launch a short prayer to heaven this structure has helped me so much. I picked this up from one of my mentors, Dick Eastman the head of Every Home for Christ. I have used it often over the years whether I am praying for Samantha as she is going to bed or in my own time with God. This idea comes from the verse: “Jesus grew in wisdom and in stature and in favor with God and all the people.” (Luke 2:52 NLT) From this we can easily see the four areas to pray for them.

1. Pray for their minds.

In this area you pray that they would grow in wisdom. It may lead you to pray for their school or the specific thing that they are learning at the moment. You can also pray for the wisdom that you need to teach them as you get opportunity.

2. Pray for them physically.

Jesus grew in stature. If they are younger, you can pray for their development. Even if they are older you can pray for their protection and for health to be maintained. If they are sick this is a time to pray for their healing. You can pray for the provision they may need.

3. Pray for their relationship with God.

I pray that my daughter would learn God’s voice at an early age. I pray for her friendship with Jesus. I pray that she would be a blessing spiritually. Pray that your children and grandchildren have a deep love for God’s word.

4. Pray for their relationship with others.

This is where I pray for my daughters friends. I am praying for the kids in her class at school and church. I pray for her teachers she has and will have. Pray that they will have good relationship with the people they meet and will grow in this area.

This is just a system; there is nothing magical about it, but it gives me a framework that is helpful to my prayer life. Along with praying for the current situation in each of these area you can also pray each of them into the future.

For thoughts on praying into the future and time travel and prayer watch this video:

Would you like to read more on praying for your children? I recommend the book by Mark Batterson-Praying Circles Around Your Children

Lacking Nothing Through Prayer

Would you like to “lack nothing”? Here is a quick thought on how:

35 On-ramps to Engage New People In Prayer

I say all the time that prayer is first of all a “get to” before it is a “have to”. Having written a book, Enjoying Prayer, to help people find the joy of prayer I believe that eventually people will want to spend time with God. People who are taught and try a prayer life will want to pray. It is kind of like a freeway; once they get on they will move faster into the presence of God. As a leader it is your opportunity to provide as many on ramps to the prayer freeway as possible. Let me just give you some ideas to get you started

1. Build prayer teams for every church outreach event.

2. Have times of special prayer for missionaries you support or assign out missionaries throughout the year.

3. Schedule a prayer walk/drive around your city.

4. Schedule a prayer missions trip (locally or internationally).

5. Present the idea of praying for your 5 closest neighbors.

6. Have people create a list of 5 unreached friends to pray.

7. Have everyone in the church put a prayer request on a 3 x 5 card and trade them for a week.

8. Start a prayer small group.

9. Make signs of church goals for prayer.

10. Model different postures of prayer in your services.

11. Invite fire fighters, police officers, socials workers, government officials to a time to pray for them.

12. Have a special weekend of 24/7 prayer.

13. Have a week of fasting and prayer (spice it up with doing different types of fasts: TV, Social Media etc).

14. Put a weekly prayer request for the church through your social media channels.

15. Have people sign up for a weekly email with prayer needs of the church.

16. Introduce the church to prayer apps: 7:14, PrayerMate, Voice of the Martyrs.

17. Have open times of prayers in your service when each person prays for their own needs.

18. If you don’t have regular prayer services, start one for once a quarter.

19. Start or expand a prayer team for needs after the service.

20. Hand out world prayer maps (Every Home For Christ -Free).

21. Have a training to teach people how to pray for others.

22. Introduce people to classics of prayer like The Practice of the Presence of God and The Hour that Changes the World.

23. Introduce people to classic prayer people: Praying Hyde, George Mueller, Charles Finney.

24. Recruit people to be prayer mentors.

25. Have special prayer events for ministries, Men’s Prayer Night, 20 something prayer day etc.

26. In small group based churches do prayer training for your leaders.

27. Share selected testimonies of answered prayer.

28. Encourage people to pray for lost people at Christmas.

29. Teach the prayer of thanksgiving at Thanksgiving.

30. Encourage people to pray for new things at the New Year for themselves and church.

31. Encourage people to pray for hurting people and marriages on Valentine’s Day.

32. Encourage people to pray for new life on Easter.

33. Pray for hurting mother’s/fathers on Mother’s/Father’s Day

34. Give opportunities to pray for their country on Independence Day.

35. Use back to school as a time to pray for kids/teachers and administrators.

Pick one that you like on this list and start somewhere. Before you know it a whole new culture of prayer might develop in your church.