5 Steps To Get Your Prayer Life Off The Ground

I was doing a teaching for a discipleship group on having a prayer life. This was a young group of mostly college students. After my teaching we had a little time for questions and answers. One young lady asked a very honest question about where to start. She was referring to how to get a prayer life going if you are at ground zero. I gave her a simple place to start but after leaving I was thinking more deeply about what advice I would give others in the future.

Here are five things that I would advice to you if you feel like your prayer life is not going at all. These could also be helpful if you have people that you are working with that could use some help. Everyone is a little different but I think these steps could be a place to start.

  1. Commit to something daily

When I answered the lady I suggested committing to a small amount every day or one larger amount once a week. Upon reflection I think something every day has a better likelihood of success. Another option would be to start with something the 5 work days with weekends off at the beginning. John Maxwell says, “The secret of your success if determined by your daily agenda.”

2. Pick a time smaller than you think that you can do to start

More people give up on prayer times because they can’t fulfill a large goal than give up because they are exceeding a small goal. Give yourself something that you know that you can do every day.  I suggested to this lady that she start with 10 minutes a day. You can move to a goal of praying without ceasing later, but for now you are getting some momentum.

3. Let your Bible reading be the content of your prayer

I teach a three hour seminar on how to have an enjoyable prayer life. I cover a full buffet of different types of prayer. But to start with if you are already reading the Bible come back to that as conversation starters for your time of prayer. If you don’t have a Bible reading plan yet, start with a story of Jesus. Then you can talk to Jesus about Jesus.

4. Incorporate thankfulness into this prayer time

Along with praying the Bible adding an element of thankfulness can bring life to your prayer. Thankfulness in prayer helped change my outlook on life. I have written about the simple journal method that I use that could be a great place to start in your prayer life. Early on you will be learning the joy giving aspects of prayer that will sustain you for the rest of your life.

5. Build a little bit of accountability into your prayer life

The Bible teaches us that we weren’t designed to do this life alone. Sharing with someone your commitment to be a person of prayer can be a powerful thing. Maybe you could simply share on your favorite social media channel your new commitment. Then each day share part of the scripture you prayed with a hashtag #mytimewithJesus

Try these five things for a month. After the month think about what is working and what is not working. If you struggle don’t beat yourself up; simply commit to trying something new the next month. Soon your prayer life will one of the great joys of your day.

6 Ways to Have Some Adventure in Your Christian Walk without Going Crazy (Updated)

I am learning more and more that I am not wired like everyone else. Reading Marcus Buckingham’s book Standout and taking the assessment he defines me as an Equalizing Pioneer. Another way of saying it he would describe me as an Organized Trailblazer. Thinking about my story I find this to be true.

I am willing to do things that other people are not even thinking about doing. I start a ministry that doesn’t have another example that I know of already. I work strategically so I can travel to some of the darkest places in the world. I start a blog about prayer and then walk out step by step to make it happen.

But what if you are not wired that way? Maybe you read those things and think they just sound like a bad day. You want excitement in your walk with God, but that just sounds out there. How do you get to that place?

One simple verse by Paul gives a powerful and practical solution. He says, “Only let us live up to what we have attained.” (Philippians 3:16) Basically he is saying that there are things that we don’t understand, but we can always do what we know to do already. Just living up to what we believe already will keep us really busy even if we don’t add anything new.

Here are some examples:

1 Pray and listen.

Simply taking 5 minutes a day to prayerfully listen to God could radically change your next year

2 Love your neighbor.

Finding practical ways to love the people around you will take you on adventures that will touch you and them.

 3 Encourage people.

Even 1 time a day of encouraging someone is like John Maxwell says-you are giving oxygen to their soul.

4 Cut out something destructive from your life.

We don’t normally need someone else to tell us what they are, but what would your life be like without whatever that thing is?

5 Rejoice easily.

Enjoying God, life, friends and simple moments will bring adventure to the ordinary.

6 Give generously.

When we give we make room for the miraculous in our lives.

What other things do we already know that just need to live? What could you do today?