5 Steps To Get Your Prayer Life Off The Ground

I was doing a teaching for a discipleship group on having a prayer life. This was a young group of mostly college students. After my teaching we had a little time for questions and answers. One young lady asked a very honest question about where to start. She was referring to how to get a prayer life going if you are at ground zero. I gave her a simple place to start but after leaving I was thinking more deeply about what advice I would give others in the future.

Here are five things that I would advice to you if you feel like your prayer life is not going at all. These could also be helpful if you have people that you are working with that could use some help. Everyone is a little different but I think these steps could be a place to start.

  1. Commit to something daily

When I answered the lady I suggested committing to a small amount every day or one larger amount once a week. Upon reflection I think something every day has a better likelihood of success. Another option would be to start with something the 5 work days with weekends off at the beginning. John Maxwell says, “The secret of your success if determined by your daily agenda.”

[tweetthis]The secret of your success if determined by your daily agenda.- John Maxwell[/tweetthis]

2. Pick a time smaller than you think that you can do to start

More people give up on prayer times because they can’t fulfill a large goal than give up because they are exceeding a small goal. Give yourself something that you know that you can do every day.  I suggested to this lady that she start with 10 minutes a day. You can move to a goal of praying without ceasing later, but for now you are getting some momentum.

3. Let your Bible reading be the content of your prayer

I teach a three hour seminar on how to have an enjoyable prayer life. I cover a full buffet of different types of prayer. But to start with if you are already reading the Bible come back to that as conversation starters for your time of prayer. If you don’t have a Bible reading plan yet, start with a story of Jesus. Then you can talk to Jesus about Jesus.

4. Incorporate thankfulness into this prayer time

Along with praying the Bible adding an element of thankfulness can bring life to your prayer. Thankfulness in prayer helped change my outlook on life. I have written about the simple journal method that I use that could be a great place to start in your prayer life. Early on you will be learning the joy giving aspects of prayer that will sustain you for the rest of your life.

5. Build a little bit of accountability into your prayer life

The Bible teaches us that we weren’t designed to do this life alone. Sharing with someone your commitment to be a person of prayer can be a powerful thing. Maybe you could simply share on your favorite social media channel your new commitment. Then each day share part of the scripture you prayed with a hashtag #mytimewithJesus

[tweetthis]I am committing to taking my prayer life to a new level. Join me? #mytimewithJesus[/tweetthis]

Try these five things for a month. After the month think about what is working and what is not working. If you struggle don’t beat yourself up; simply commit to trying something new the next month. Soon your prayer life will one of the great joys of your day.

How to better encourage with prayer (Updated)

Our words have power. Better yet your words have power. Proverbs says that the tongue has the power of life and death (18:21). It also says, “Gracious words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones” (16:24). What you say to people, if in person, by phone, email or even text can be an encouragement to them. To paraphrase Dr. David Jeremiah-“Encouragement is speaking truth to people’s fears.” You can speak life to people.

[tweetthis]Encouragement is speaking truth to people’s fears-Dr David Jeremiah (paraphrased)[/tweetthis]

But where do these words of life come from? Jesus said that what is on the inside of our heart is where our words come. (Matt 12:34) What is going on inside of us is most of where the words of encouragement come.

Part of these words will just come from a constant feeding on God’s word in the Bible. We must also remember that the still small voice is where we get some laser-like precision to speak to people’s fears. God would speak to your heart so you can speak to the heart of others. Some of that for me is asking God to give me the right words for the right people.

[tweetthis]The still small voice is where we get some laser-like precision to speak to people’s fears.[/tweetthis]

As part of this ministry I have been amazed again and again how a phrase that God will throw into my head before or during a conversation is just the right word for that person. The key for me is to be willing to listen to God so that I have the words to speak. Are you willing to spend time in prayer listening so that you can bring words of life to a friend in need?

6 Ingredients of a Powerful Prayer Service

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After I wrote the post 4 Prayer Services Most People Won’t Go To, one reader asked what kind formats of prayer service do people want to attend. Although I plan to write more about this in the future, I thought I would at least give some ingredients to get us started.

Acts chapter 4 gives us a picture of a powerful prayer service. Although Dr Luke was probably not writing to give people a workbook on how to run a prayer service he highlights 6 ingredients I see often in successful prayer meetings.

Leader Initiated

The apostles wanted to update the church on what was happening so they called the church together. Most successful prayer services that I see are initiated by the senior leaders. This does not mean that the senior pastor needs to run every meeting, but I often tell leaders to think about their commitment to be involved before another prayer service is added to the calendar.

Begins with worship

These early Christians began with acknowledging who God is in the universe. Any good prayer service is helped by beginning at this point. We move our eyes off of our own needs and onto a God who can answer them.

[tweetthis]In prayer we move our eyes off of our own needs and onto a God who can answer them.[/tweetthis]

Bible Infused

The prayer service got energy because they stood on the foundation of scripture. Personal prayer gains confidence when praying God’s Word. The same is true of corporate prayer meeting as well. There are many creative ways to incorporate the Bible into a service.

Mission Driven

They were drawn to prayer because they needed God. The church is a part of the greatest mission in the world. Connecting your prayer service to this purpose engages people to something larger than themselves. Men in particular are drawn to this type of meeting and at this point men are less likely to go to most prayer services.

Bold and Audacious Prayer

Even though they were faced with threats their prayer was not for safety, but for more boldness. They didn’t pray to stay safe but for more strength to make a difference. We need more of this in many of our prayer services.

[tweetthis]They didn’t pray to stay safe but for more strength to make a difference. Are you?[/tweetthis]

Space for God to Respond

After they prayed they were filled with the Holy Spirit. How many of our prayer services do we actually expect God to meet us? How different would our prayer times be if we were filled with faith that the thing we asked for would happen?

Even with these 6 ingredients there is still a lot of creativity that can be brought to your prayer service. Allow the Holy Spirit to lead you and you might be on the adventure that could change everything around you.